Thriller, Filler, Spiller

I'm not much of a gardener, but I do love the look of a cottage garden — or a flower pot that replicates it.

To fill a bare space where the tall oak used to be, I wanted to create a container garden that sets the right tone, with a colorful abundance. I do what I always do when confronted with a task I know little about: I researched it. 

Container gardens should combine a thriller, a filler and a spiller, said one reputable source, Better Homes and Gardens. So I went to the nursery, bought begonias and heliotrope for the filler, caladium for the thriller and sweet potato vine for the spiller. 

Midway through a warm, dry summer, I'm thankful that these plants are all still alive. But half of the fillers are fading away and the spiller has become the thriller. Isn't that just the way it goes?

Munch, Munch

Yes, they have to eat, too. But does it have to be my day lilies? Or hosta? Or, based on the nibbled stalks I've spied in a neighbor's yard, the cone flowers, too?

I snapped a shot of this little fellow munching some vine or weed in the woods. To him it's all the same: impatiens or Virginia creeper. He can leap most fences and surmount most barriers. Stick with the wild stuff, I tell him as I pass on a walk. I don't think he was listening, though.

A cashier in a garden shop told me about a customer who came in three times to replace the plants deer had snatched from her flower pots. Eventually she gave up and stuck plastic flags in those pots. The deer ate those, too. 

Mountain Laurel

The mountain laurel was blooming, and I had to see it. I remember stumbling on it during the pandemic during a one-day getaway that was the most time I'd spent away from home in months.

Yesterday, well clear of lockdowns and one week further into June, the blossoms were heavy on their glossy green stems. Flowering shrubs lined one section of trail, making a passageway of poesies. 

Walking through it, I felt like those blossoms were blessing me, which I guess, in their own way, they were. 

A Whiff of Honeysuckle

The aroma of honeysuckle is in the air, and every year I want to hold onto it, to have it close at hand so I can inhale it whenever I walk out the door. I dream of rooting a sprig of the vine, planting it, and training it to tumble over my back fence.

This year I came close to doing that, was even scouting out potential plant "donors." Then I came to my senses. Introduce another invasive species when our yard is full of knotweed, stilt grass and bamboo? I must be crazy.

Honeysuckle is a wild thing, after all, and it's best left where it is, mostly in the park or common land. A whiff may be all I get. But sometimes, a whiff is enough.

Rose Time

The climbing rose peaked a few days ago, but the plant is still weighed heavy by blossoms, and when I sit on the deck to write the air is filled with fragrance. 

When I look out at the yard through its flowers, it's a little like looking at the world through rose-tinted glasses.

But at some point, I must squeegee off the glass-topped table and abandon for a minute my journal or laptop to sweep up petals with the old broom I leave outside. 

What better way to enjoy the rose than by immersing myself in its detritus, still soft and pearly pink?

Purple Pathway

A walk yesterday when I didn't feel like walking. A walk that healed and restored. It began at a trailhead I haven't frequented in months, meandered down a dirt trail, over a bridge, then passed a field of lavender flowers. 

I thought I knew all the patches of fetching spring blooms, but these had escaped my notice. They may have been weeds (wild grape hyacinth?), but who cares? They were shining in the late day sun, a purple pathway.

The flowers and the movement invigorated. The world looked brighter when I returned home.

Witnessing

Walking is witnessing, a way to be present in movement and in time. 

Yesterday's stroll took me from the oldest part of Reston to the newest, from a community center to a commercial plaza, from a small cafe to a bustling bakery.

And all along I'm thinking spring. The dogwood, the azalea, the first green of the oaks and poplars. How lovely it is to see it unfold along familiar paths, how grateful I was to witness its unfolding.

Flower Shopping

A trip to a garden shop yesterday put me much in mind of spring. Though it's cloudy and rainy today, yesterday it was warm and sunny, and the shop had everything, it seemed, except the one plant I was looking for.

That would be a climbing rose. This old-fashioned beauty is no longer in favor, it seems. All eyes are on the knockout rose, its flashy second (or third?) cousin. 

Knockouts are beautiful, and easier to grow than most other varieties, but long ago I fell in love with climbers and am stuck with the attraction now. In a few weeks I'll post a photo that will explain why. For now, though, a picture of some magenta phlox I spied on a walk the other day. They're perfect enough to be in a garden shop themselves.

Wood Poppies!

As last week's rains were falling, the great engine of spring was whirring silently. I could see very little change out my office window, but plants were still prepping for a great leap forward. 

At first, the gold of the wood poppies blended with the yellow of the daffodils. But now the smaller flowers are coming into their own. They are filling the far backyard, the part that's wooded and wild. They are spreading a carpet of bloom.

I just saw a fox pause among the flowers, look around and trot on.  

(The wood poppies in bloom: all that's missing is the hammock.)

Down of a Thistle

Several days during the trip last month the air was filled with flying fluff. It took a while to determine the source, to realize that the fluff was the down of a thistle, the national flower of Caledonia.

Here's a perfect example of vacation thinking. Were I at home, I would find the thistle a weed and the fluff frustrating evidence of its spread. But in Scotland, I found it enchanting, winged messengers of hope and beauty.

Watching the gossamer stuff float through a heathered Highland landscape was a magical experience. It brought the Clement Clarke Moore lines to mind:

"He sprang to his sleigh, to his team gave a whistle/And away they all flew, like the down of a thistle ..."

And that's just what we did — fly away, that is.  I miss that magical vacation thinking. 

(I saw a lot more heather than thistles.)

From a Distance

I've spent a few evenings this week rocking in the hammock as day dwindles to darkness. It's a show worth watching. 

At first, my focal point has been the sky, the lightning bugs (fewer than last year but still blinking), and the garden, in peak bloom with coneflowers, day lilies, roses and zinnias. 

Eventually, though, I can't help but notice the house, which appears almost fetching in the half-light. I can't spot its deficiencies as I do in the no-nonsense noontime glare. I forget about the azalea that needs pruning, the deck that needs mending, the door that needs replacing. 

All I see is my home. How beautiful it looks ... from a distance. 

A Pile of Petals

The climbing rose has come into its own, has come into and gone past it, if you want to know the truth. But it hung in there long enough for me to see it, even after I had the audacity to spend 10 days away during its peak blooming period. 

I attribute the rose's survivability to scant rain and wind — and maybe, even to profusion: with so many buds to bloom, the process takes time.

Now comes the season of deconstruction, of light pink petals falling gently to the deck, the railing, the glass-topped table, even into the dregs of my morning tea. 

I keep a pile of petals beside me as I work. From time to time, I run my fingers through them and feel their velvety softness.

(The climbing rose seen from above and the pile of petals I kept beside me as I work.)

Roses and Rhodies

On our last full day in the Emerald City, roses and rhodies ... 

An arboretum...

A rose garden ...

And to top it off, a dollop of white wisteria.

Potential

It's a day for flowers, for corsages and nosegays. And at my house, it's a day to admire the climbing rose, poised to begin its spring show. 

The buds are primed, some have popped, others are ready to.

It's also, then, a day to celebrate potential. For Mom, who always believed in our potential. And for my daughters, whose potential I was privileged to see, treasure and help shape, for all that lies ahead for them. 

Maybe May

It's May Day, the first day of a glorious month, not a holiday in this country but in many others. I used to tell my daughters, if you're looking for a lovely time of year to be married, the beginning of May is that time. They were married in April, September and December.  So much for motherly advice. 

But what's interesting about time and weather patterns is that I wouldn't say this today. A decade or so ago, early May was a reliably beautiful time of year, prime azalea season, iris yet to pop, plenty of color amidst the green. These days it's unsettled. We might have such a May 1, but more than likely we won't. This year's unseasonably warm winter means it's looking decidedly summery, though it's quite chilly, an odd combination, to say the least.

We talk a lot about climate change with its serious implications for life on this planet. But shifts in longtime patterns of growth and maturity, planting and harvesting, affect us more subtly too. They prey on our spirits and mess with our minds. 

(An azalea in its prime ... on April 14, 2023.)

Words and Flowers

Today, inspiration in my inbox. Sunday's "Marginalian," which I didn't have time to read yesterday, reminds me (in the voice of diarist, novelist and poet May Sarton) to choose joy over will. 

Though the context in which she makes this point is through her love of gardening, a love I only partially share (I appreciate the garden a lot more than the gardening) Sarton's point is well-taken. 

"Gardening is like poetry in that it is gratuitous, and also that it cannot be done on will alone," Sarton wrote. "What will can do, and the only thing it can do, is make time in which to do it."

This is the point I will take with me through the day, to let myself off the hook if the words don't flow as I wish they would ... that I can make the time, and that is essential, but the words come when they want to come. Just like the flowers.

Protecting the Forest

I'd resisted for days, but today I gave in. I reached down and pulled up a few garlic mustard plants, an edible but invasive species I've learned of recently, mostly from seeing pulled and trampled stems on the trail. 

It's tall with a few delicate white flowers. At first, I admired it. But then I learned how it can dominate the ground cover in a forest, driving out the natives.

Walks are when I think and listen to music, when ideas percolate. I don't want to wear garden gloves and trudge through the woods with a bucket and spade. But these plants pull up so easily that I hardly broke my stride getting rid of them.  If everyone pulled up a few stalks, there would be no more garlic mustard in our woods.

In the end, it's elemental: When we notice, we care. And when we care, we protect. 

(Photo: Wikimedia)

Kwanzan Up Close

The Kwanzan cherry had barely begun to leaf this time last week. But the warm temperatures of early April have sent it into overdrive. 

I'm spending some time this morning just looking at the tree, observing how the big-fisted flowers bend its branches to earth. 

The Kwanzan is not as ethereal as the Yoshino cherry, which typically blooms a few weeks earlier. It's an earthier, later blossom.  It's best photographed up close, I think, against a bright blue sky.

Stop Time?

Speaking of buttercups ... spring unspooled slowly through the month of March. Daffodils that bloomed in late February were still with us this time last week. 

But in the last few days the season hit fast forward. Our dogwood and Kwanzan cherry were barely leafing out on Monday; now they're in full flower. Temperatures above 85 degrees will do that to a plant.

I'm hoping that today's burst of cool air has stopped time enough to preserve "nature's first green," which is gold. It's been gold for weeks now. I hope, against all evidence to the contrary, that it will stay. 

(A hyacinth blooms in February.)

Follow the Yellow-Flower Road

This is what happens when I walk. I can be thinking some perfectly sane and responsible thoughts and then a scene like this will trigger the ear worm. For the rest of the walk, I hear the high-pitched voices: "Follow the yellow brick road. Follow the yellow brick road."

Only I substitute "flower" for brick.

Because, really, isn't that what you think when you see these bright buttercups, so plentiful this year? Maybe not. But if it's folly, it's a folly that flows from a flower, so all is forgiven.

I did follow the yellow-flower road, and it gave me a good workout.